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PFLAG Denver SoFFA Group
SoFFA = Significant Other, Family, Friend, and Ally

Is your child, significant other, family member or friend transgender or non-binary? Join PFLAG Denver's SoFFA Group!

“The most important thing to remember is that allyship is a verb, not a noun. You can’t simply ‘be’ an ally. You need to practice it.” -Dr. Evelyn Carter 


PFLAG Denver is committed to supporting folks in the Denver community who are wanting to practice true allyship by showing up for their LGBTQIA+ loved ones to learn how to be more affirming and supportive. Our SoFFA group (SoFFA stands for significant others, friends, families, and allies) is a place where individuals with loved ones who are transgender and/or gender expansive can connect with one another, unpack their biases, build community, learn, unlearn and so much more. 

WHO? This group centers the experiences and emotional needs of the Significant Others, Family, and Friends who have Transgender, Non-binary and gender expansive loved ones. Allies are welcome, but are asked to actively participate in forwarding their understanding and allyship through contributed conversation and reflection. If you are an ally and would like to know more about these expectations, please contact

WHAT? One-hour support group to share your stories and experiences with others on a similar path of supporting a loved one.

WHY? To gain support and community from others who share the unique experience of supporting a loved one through the exploration of their gender identity, and/or transitioning. Create the opportunity to increase your knowledge about the process and gather ideas to support loved ones better as they move through their journey.


  • Twice Monthly on Sundays

  • Virtually from 5:00pm - 6:00pm

  • In-Person from 10:00am - 11:30am

  • See full schedule to the right 


  • VIRTUAL support meets via Zoom.

    • We will send you the link on the day of the event.

    • You need to register to receive the zoom link:

  • IN-PERSON support meets in the private community room                                                                                        at PRODIGY COFFEE HOUSE

    • 3801 E 40th Ave, Denver, CO 80205

QUESTIONS? Email group facilitators:

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